Ruby McKenzie
We live in an age of sexual openness and acceptance. People no longer have to hide their sexualities and sexual identities, because society no longer stigmatizes people because of their sexual interests. No matter what you like, you can find like-minded people to share your interests with.
The internet played a very large role in sexual acceptance because it gave people an anonymous platform to voice their interests and explain why they like what they do. However, this post will not explore how society became more accepting. Instead, it will explain how you can celebrate your sexuality and sexual identity:
Sexual Experimentation
One way of celebrating your sexuality and sexual identity is to experiment with new things. Most people are very set in their ways sexually, performing acts that they know and are confident with. Pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone can be exciting. Trying new things like gay nip play or pegging could be great ways of experimenting. If you are going to experiment with new things, then make sure that you don’t force yourself to do things that you don’t want to do. Sexual experiences should be fun, not stressful.
New Partners
Meeting new sexual partners is another way of celebrating your sexuality, because what’s a better way to express one’s sexuality than through sex? Naturally, you will have sex with the kind of people that you are attracted to, and more than likely they will also share your sexual interests and sexuality, so you can celebrate it together. One way of meeting new sexual partners is to use hook-up sites. Another is to visit singles bars or go cruising if you are a member of the gay community.
Enjoy Yourself
Celebrating your sexuality is all about having fun. What’s the point in celebrating anything if you aren’t enjoying yourself when doing it? Enjoying yourself sexually depends largely upon what it is that interests you. As mentioned previously, you could experiment sexually, or you could meet new partners. You could even walk down the street shouting about your sexuality and how much you love it (although that’s probably not a good idea). The point is, you need to enjoy yourself. Your sexual identity is a very big part of you. If you do not enjoy yourself and express your sexuality in fun ways, then you will never truly enjoy your life.
Watching Pornography
Pornography is a good way to get yourself off or to warm yourself up for sex. Pornography can build up a lot of sexual tension, especially if you do not masturbate when you are watching it. Thanks to the internet, there is an almost infinite supply of pornography for you to watch, from a broad range of categories. If you have a sexual partner, then you could celebrate your sexualities together by watching pornography, while engaging in sexual acts with one another. You can also subscribe to OnlyFans, where it’s possible to get customized pornographic content created by the platform’s models.
Buying Memorabilia
If you want to celebrate your sexual identity in a way that’s not related to actual sexual acts, then you could just buy memorabilia that expresses your sexuality, like clothes. If you are a member of the gay community, then you could buy gay pride clothing, for example. If clothing doesn’t currently exist for your particular sexual interest, then you can more than likely have it printed. There are myriad custom clothing printing companies, that will print more or less anything that you ask them to. Buying memorabilia is a great way to express your sexuality.
Attending Events
If the sexual interests that you have are shared by many other people, then you could attend events held to celebrate them. If you are a member of the LGBTQ community, then you could attend one of their events, which are usually very large. Alternatively, you could attend protests. Because of everything that’s going on in the United States politically at the moment and fears that the Supreme Court could reverse gay marriage rulings, there are a lot of pro-LGBTQ and pro-choice rallies, which you could go to.
Public Posts
A very easy way of celebrating one’s sexual identity that does not involve spending money, having sex, or attending rallies, is to make public posts on your social media accounts. It’s very common for people to do this nowadays. If you have a large following on social media, then you can use your social media presence to express yourself sexually and to show your followers what you identify as. This is a very safe way of expressing yourself, too. You could also tell your friends and family, explaining to them how important your sexual identity is to you.
Charitable Donations
Making donations to charities that are held to support people who identify the same as you is another effective way of celebrating your sexuality and expressing it. If you are going to make charitable donations, then make sure that you find a charity that gives a large percentage of donations to the cause that it’s supporting. Unfortunately, a lot of charities retain large amounts of money given to them, which they use to pay their staff and perform fundraising. Charitable donations can also be made on an individual level if there are any people that you know who need support with coming to terms with their sexualities.
Making Friends
Finally, consider making friends with other people who share your sexuality. Having a group of friends who identify the same as you can be very fulfilling. You can find people who share your sexual interests all over the internet, but forums and chat rooms are the best places to look. Using a forum is a great way to celebrate your sexuality anonymously, which is great for people who are not comfortable telling their loved ones about their sexual interests. You can also make friends at rallies, protests, and meetings, which have already been covered.
If you love yourself, then celebrate yourself for who you are. Celebrating one’s sexuality is an extremely effective way of communicating who you are and expressing your identity to your friends and loved ones. If you want to express yourself, then make sure that you don’t force it on anyone, however. It’s very common for people to force their beliefs on other people nowadays, which isn’t fair.
